When my ex asked to pause child support so his wife could get a new car, I pretended to agree—then handed him an envelope claiming I’d reopen our asset division. It was a bluff, but it scared him into continuing the payments.
Days later, he showed up looking defeated. Business was failing, he was deep in debt, and the car was a desperate attempt to impress clients. He wasn’t being greedy—he was drowning.
I couldn’t lose the child support, but I offered him part-time work with my online business. His pride took a hit, but he accepted. He ended up excelling—fixing my books, organizing inventory, and even creating a plan that boosted my profits by nearly 40%.
The job stabilized him, ensured Leo’s support, and unexpectedly rebuilt our co-parenting relationship. He paid off his debt, started an education fund for Leo, and eventually launched his own consulting business.
A bluff got his attention—but helping him back on his feet solved everything.
